Still Seeking a Home

The Haps
Listening to: Rose Melberg, Cars Can Be Blue and similar artists on my "Recommended Radio" at Last.fm, which always plays me a lot more "twee" than it ought to. Kind of nice on a hazy Saturday morning, though.


"Please, we just need a house
before I'm as big as one!"
This has been a much quieter week by comparison. We're not much closer to getting the house than we were last weekend, unfortunately. Tara is still working hard with our realtor.


She woke up noticeably larger yesterday. She showed me an illustration of what our babies look like now, and they're a lot bigger than I realized. We're getting into the third trimester now!


This week I got to write copy for a "tear pad" for cancer patients. It's just a stack of sheets with chemotherapy information that the doctors will rip off and give to their new patients. While lung cancer is a very serious condition, it's exciting to me that one of the first things many newly diagnosed patients will receive will be a page of information that I wrote! That's the kind of thing that drives and motivates me in this job.


Tomorrow we'll finally visit a church and try to make some friends. We could really use a few right now! I guess it's been three weeks since we had anything to do with church. The one we're looking at seems exciting.


Thoughts
The difference in my attitude this month and my attitude when I started my previous job has been very obvious to me. At the end of 2007, I had just been let go from a job, been on unemployment wages for two months, ended up having to move literally a thousand miles away to be employed again in a place far from any place I'd ever been. Not only that, but I had just become engaged to a girl I'd known for about nine months, and it was to be a very short engagement! Looking back, I'm actually happy about how well I was able to get through it, and I know it's only because I was looking to the Lord, and He was beside me the whole time.


How completely different it is this time! My last company actually misses me now, because I suddenly got a lot better at my job at the end of 2009. I'm in one of the happiest marriages I've ever seen, back in a state I already loved, in a workplace that amazes me with really nice people, and about to have twin girls! And, importantly, I have twice as much confidence as I had a few years ago thanks to the experience I've gained since then. I no longer feel like the account executives are talking way over my head--just a little over it sometimes. In short, I'm pretty much right where I want to be in life.


The only question now is...am I where God wants me to be yet? With the Holy Spirit living in me, I can't help but ask that. And I'm glad, because that lets me know He indeed lives in me!


Today's Scripture
2 Samuel 8
Key verse: (11) "King David also dedicated these [gifts] to the Lord, along with the silver and gold that he had dedicated from all the nations which he had subdued..."


Reflection
A short but action-packed chapter. King David is taking over large chunks of the Middle East, including strong nations such as Syria and Edom (an ancient kingdom in what is now Jordan). Apparently God did not have a problem with Israel subduing peoples beyond the borders of the land He had promised His people. It seems as though David made a hobby of that, though it's more likely that he was merely defending his country from the surrounding nations who were threatening it.


David had a rare, special relationship with the Lord. The more powerful he became, the more he recognized the hand of God in everything that occurred. This is very clear when we read his Psalms. How opposite is his mentality from that of so many Israelites in the Old Testament who forgot the Lord in the good times. Unlike them, David didn't need to be defeated by an enemy before he would remember the Lord. He walked with Him in good times and bad and constantly looked for opportunities to show the Lord his gratitude. Who would have expected his predecessor, Saul, to dedicate to God precious metals acquired from his enemies? The word "dedicate" is not used in the Bible during Saul's reign at all!


Prayer
Lord, thank you for this time of blessing in our lives. May we always look for ways to show you our gratitude and give you all of ourselves. Let us walk beside you closely and call upon you in times of peace and plenty as well as in times of need.


Please help Tara and keep her healthy during this final trimester. Help us to find a place to live soon so we can fully prepare for our babies' arrival. And please provide friends for us who will be willing to help when we are in need. Thank you, in Jesus' name.


Final Thoughts
We finally drove through downtown Columbus the other evening, and I felt a little let down. I expected it to be like Dayton only bigger and more exciting. I was not impressed. Fortunately, we really like the northern area where we are staying and working, and we like the little town north of Columbus, Delaware, where we are hoping to live. Northern Columbus is the booming part of town, and it's exciting to be here.


UPDATE: Before I was able to edit and post this, we went up to Delaware to look at the house again. While we were up there, we looked at another, more expensive house. We're seriously thinking about switching. We'll let you know!

First Week in Ohio

The Haps
Current location: Our temporary home at Extended Stay Deluxe Columbus, Polaris. Not sure what makes it "deluxe"...the DVD player? The place isn't that impressive, really, but it's five times the place we were originally going to move into.


Our temporary dwelling.
Listening to: Faceless Sonic Boom, the new, free album by the band girls in the eighties. Lovin' it. They're a noisy pop band playing music similar to the stuff Tara and I did on our album only probably lots better. They sound like a whole choir is singing on a lot of the songs. Very upbeat. Their frontman is my friend on Last.fm, but I would recommend them anyway. Download here. [[Parental Advisory: Explicit Content]]


So many haps in the last two weeks. Our belongings were put on a truck, and we hauled our Pathfinder behind our Expedition all the way to Columbus. Since then Tara has been hard at work finding us a place to live, and we've already signed a contract and starting talking with a mortgage broker! 
The house we hope to get.


We just had the house we want inspected. It's ninety years old, and it has some issues, so there's still a lot to negotiate. I learned a lot about foundations, guttering, mold, furnaces, and lots of other stuff this morning.


Meanwhile, my job is going well so far. I have a tiny office in a huge building. Hundreds of people work at GSW, so there are many opportunities to make friends there. Everyone looks like they're having a good time. It's a really cool and interesting place. I'm spending most of my time learning everything I can about chemotherapy for patients with lung cancer.
"The Eclipse", the "wind kinetic structure"
in front of the building where I work.
There are many such structures by the
same artist in Columbus.


We've also had dinner at a family's house and had a few date nights already. We're getting to know our new surroundings and the community we hope to live in, which is Delaware, Ohio.


Whoa, it's raining like crazy now.


We're spending tomorrow at the hospital where our girls will be born. We'll go to a birthing class for parents of multiples, and we'll get a tour of the delivery area and the neonatal intensive care unit.


Thoughts
Most of my thoughts lately have been about how to make the most of the new opportunities we have here, particularly regarding my new job. When I come home to see Tara, I'm fighting to think about anything besides lung cancer, so I'm definitely engaged. If anyone sees me posting stuff on Facebook, know that those times are the little bit I'm taking during the day to clear my head and think about something else for a minute! When I come home, I'm still reading and learning, or at least thinking about what to do with what I've learned.


I'm the luckiest husband in the world to have a wife who does all the house-thinking for me! She lets me be involved as much as I want, but she's the one who organizes and runs everything. She's more particular about where we live anyway, and I just want her to be happy, so it's really nice that she is leading the way in all the decisions that need to be made.


Today's Scripture
2 Samuel 7 (NKJV)
Key verse: (21) "For Your word’s sake, and according to Your own heart, You have done all these great things, to make Your servant know them."


Reflection
No action in this chapter, but I still love it. David and God have a conversation via Nathan the prophet, and it's a very positive talk...unlike one they'll have a little later in the book. Verse 21 resonates with me a lot right now because it's exactly how I've been feeling toward the Lord lately. His recent blessings toward Tara and myself are tremendous, and it's for no reason that we can see except that He wants to. 


Granted, everything He's blessed us with has caused us some amount of difficulty, but it could have been a whole lot worse, and we have so much to look forward to in the months to come that you'll never hear us complain! We usually have to go through a little bit of hardship to get to the best stuff in life, and this time we can see it coming miles away! 


The crazy thing is how little I deserve any of this. Yes, I serve the Lord, but only when it's fun and easy. I'm no great servant by any means, but He treats me like I am...even though I like to listen to music with explicit content. So I'm crazy grateful to my Lord! 


There is a verse I've been reminded of this past week, and it's weird because it's literally a satanic quote! But it's in Job 1, where God is glorifying His servant Job in a conversation with the devil. In verses 9 and 10, Satan responds to the Lord saying, "Does Job fear God for nothing? Have you not made a hedge around him, around his household, and around all that he has on every side? You have blessed the work of his hands, and his possessions have increased in the land."


Prayer
Lord, I do fear you. I know that all you have blessed me with could easily be taken away tomorrow. You give and take away--blessed be the name of the Lord.


Like that old serpent said, you've made a hedge around me, my household and all that I have on every side. You've blessed the work of my hands, and my possessions have increased in the land!


And to quote David, "For Your word’s sake, and according to Your own heart, You have done all these great things, to make Your servant know them." I am so thankful. As he said in verse 26, "Let Your name be magnified forever."


If it's Your will, please continue to help us through this process of getting this house. You see how much Tara wants it...but we want Your will.


Thank you, in Jesus' name.


Final Thoughts
Tara and I were just discussing whether we might have to give up on this house and move into a nice three-bedroom apartment. At this point, we're at the sellers' mercy, and timing is a big issue with our pregnancy. I won't bore you with the details, but there's your update. Thanks to all of you who have prayed, and you can keep it up if you want!

Our Final Week in New York

The Haps
Listening to: A mix of alternative country, sixties avant-pop, soul jazz and general weirdness at Pandora.com.


Can anyone help me with the spacing on this blog? It's weird that this is the default formatting. Why is there so much space between paragraphs? I can't figure out the HTML.


This was a tough week, and I'm still pretty tired since I had to get up at 6:15 today to attend my last Gideons meeting.


Besides packing boxes, I had to spend late hours working on my last project for my current company. If not for Tara organizing the move and finding us a temporary place to live, I don't know how I would be ready to leave town on Friday. Thank you, God, for such an amazing marriage relationship! It's the biggest blessing in my life, by far.


"I'm as hot as ever!"
She didn't really say that, of course.
That's my own opinion.
Tara is about to attend her second baby shower this morning. She hit 24 weeks this week (that's six months for the mathematically challenged like me). Here's a picture! My pictures of her never do her any justice, sadly.

Oh, and a friend and her new baby came up from Manhattan to spend the night with us tonight. Should be fun!


Tomorrow at church Tara and I will be putting on a mini-worship concert with our pianist friend Joel. I've been pretty excited about it. The setlist, our final one at this church, is all about God's love and glory and will go like this (but with keyboard and acoustic guitar only): "God In Heaven", "God's Romance", "Beautiful One", "How He Loves", "Lord You Have My Heart", "You Never Let Go".


We're leaving Saratoga on Friday, so my next post will be from...elsewhere. Wherever I can find an internet connection, I guess. I start work on August 9th.


Thoughts
On future hobbies, if there's ever time for such things again: Anyone can write a book. I've recorded a twelve-song rock album and made it available to the entire world, all for under $25. And it ain't half bad, in my opinion. I've proven to myself it can be done, and I can do it again, even better. If I can find the time and energy!


Copies sold since its release in March: None.


Regrets regarding my achievement: None. Until November, I'll consider it the greatest thing I've ever created.


Today's Scripture
2 Samuel 6 (NKJV) [Right, I haven't read since last Saturday except for church, Monday Bible study and Gideons this morning. That's why I'm doing this!]
Key verse: (13) "And so it was, when those bearing the ark of the LORD had gone six paces, that he sacrificed oxen and fatted sheep."


Reflection
This is kind of hilarious to me. Despite the sad death and marital strife seen here, this is a relatively happy chapter of the Old Testament. David was determined to bring the ark of God to Jerusalem, the center of God's holy land and the capital of Israel. But this was no ordinary box, and God wanted his holy object to be recognized as something that represented himself to his people. The respect you have for his ark is in correlation with the respect you have for him. If he killed a man for disrespecting the ark, it's no wonder he destroyed all of Jerusalem for killing his Son, leaving no stone on top of another!


After God killed the man who tried to save the ark from falling off a cart, David was upset, and you and I probably would've been, too. When he saw that the family who kept the ark in their house for three months was blessed, he decided it was safe to try again. I bet he put it on a better cart this time!


I can just imagine those first few steps. David must have been ready for something terrible to happen, because as soon as they'd gone six steps, he called out, "Stop! Everybody praise the Lord! Get the sheep and sharpen the knives!" (Or something along those lines.)


What happened to our fear of the Lord? We're reading Judges in our group Bible study, and it's so obvious there how quickly we forget God from one generation to the next. We talked the other night about how God really has to shake a generation to get their attention and make them remember the God of their fathers. I believe it's only a matter of time before that happens here in North America and hopefully other places. I believe there will be an ultimate revival around the world and that "all the families of the earth shall be blessed" (Genesis 12:3) when God's  promises are fully fulfilled


Based on biblical history, something drastic is probably going to have to take place before that happens. Like David, I might get upset with the Lord when it does, but I will trust him in all things and wait for the glorious end. He loves his children, and we will know victory in a way the nation of Israel never did.


Prayer
Lord, when awful things happen in this world, may I recognize your voice in the thunderclouds and trust in you. May I sacrifice my heart in praise and worship each day, for you and you alone are worthy.


Please keep Tara and the babies healthy. Help her blood pressure especially, Father. And please be with us during this move. We need you, and we will recognize your presence as we travel. Please help us to find a good house, too.


Thank you, in Jesus' name.


Final Thoughts
Goodbye Saratoga Springs, New York State, and everyone we know here. We'll never forget you. This was our first home as a married couple, and it will always have a special place in our hearts. Our family at New Horizon Church will especially be missed, as will the amazing family for which Tara worked as a nanny for two years. My company...not as much. I'm just hoping right now that the next one won't be any worse.


Thank goodness for Facebook! Let's keep in touch! Seriously!

Less Than Two Weeks From Moving

The Haps
By now most of our friends know we're moving to Ohio so I can start work on August 9th. Everything's so crazy. Tara will be six months' pregnant soon, and we're moving ten hours away. But we'll be so much closer to family, so it's so worth it.


Tara is having her first of two baby showers right now. This one's in Alabama. She left yesterday and won't be back until Wednesday.


Neavey at just over a pound. Actual size shown?
I packed my first box last night. I had no idea I've amassed so many sweaters! I guess that's what happens when you live in the Great White North for two-and-a-half years.


I decided to write down my thoughts and prayers in a public way because I know this is the most important time in my life for me to be devoting time to God and scripture. I must confess I've not done that much lately. I've been teaching teenagers at church, leading worship on Sundays and serving as chaplain in my Gideons group, but I've not been taking the time to be close to the Lord myself. I'm hoping that will change as this public blog keeps me accountable. I can at least do this for a few minutes on Saturdays.


Abbey, also just over a pound. She's a thumb sucker.
Thoughts
We're gonna miss this place. We've met so many good people. They're different from what we were used to. Most of our church friends grew up as Catholics. It's been great growing with them while we've been here.


Today's Scripture
2 Samuel 5 (NKJV)
Key verses: (23-24) "...So David inquired of the LORD, and he answered, 'Do not go straight up, but circle around behind them and attack them in front of the balsam trees. As soon as you hear the sound of marching in the tops of the balsam trees, move quickly, because that will mean the LORD has gone out in front of you to strike the Philistine army.'"


Reflection
I've really been into action novels and movies for the past year or two, so it's a great time to be reading 2 Samuel. It's truly action-packed. The Lord was strong with David, even though he had many wives and concubines (v. 13). Does the Bible ever actually say it was wrong of David and Solomon to have so many women? Not that I'm looking for a harem--I love Tara very, very much!


I'm amazed at the clear direction God gives people in the Bible, including the New Testament. Very rarely does it ever tell us what it actually looked or sounded like. God said it, and his people responded. If someone in the future writes about my life, will they say that God told Scott to move to Ohio to raise his new family, and Scott obeyed the Lord? Did the Bible heroes ever feel unsure whether they were actually hearing God's voice?


"Circle around behind them and attack them in front of the balsam trees." The Creator of the world said that to David! Our Father, who is one with our Savior, Jesus the Son. Such clear direction. Yes, God ordered a lot of fighting and killing, but his people didn't complain about it much. I have no doubt that these were truly evil and horrible people that the Israelites were removing from the land God gave them.


My amazing wife, Tara! 
The parties pictured above are enclosed therein.
Anyway, I want to be this close to God! There have been times when I felt I was almost that close. How could I let that go? Paul said that married people have less time to devote to God. I can see why! But Tara is definitely the kind of wife that is a help in my relationship with God, rather than a stumbling block.


Prayer
Lord, when you speak, may I be close enough to hear you clearly. May I look to you in all things.


Thank you for your incredible blessings. I could never deserve them.


Please bless Tara for her hard work and faithfulness. Help her and the babies to be extremely healthy throughout this move. Please show us the house you want us to live in, and the church you want us to serve in. And please direct Tara to the best doctor for her. Also please help my mom and Uncle Randy to be healthy. In Jesus' name.


Final Thoughts
There is so much to do, and I still have to work hard for my current employer until August 4th. What would I do without my Tara? Even pregnant, she's such a hard worker. I don't know how I'd make this move if not for all her help.


Time to have some leftover Chinese takeout, put on my favorite music and go pack boxes until I'm exhausted. Until next time, be well!