Closing Week!

The Haps
We just had our final walk-through in the new house, and we're pretty excited. We're not exactly sure what day we'll be closing, but it's definitely this week! Not sure when moving day is, either, but who cares? It's finally gonna be our home!


Abbey and Neavey:
Ready to pop
into the world!
Tara turned eight months pregnant this past week. Won't be long now!


In much less exciting news, I've decided to bring back the music podcast I was doing last year, starting in January. I started a new blog to go with it. And I've decided to record an album of songs about Jesus in 2011 with a much more acoustic sound than stuff I've been doing with Tara lately.


Thoughts
Thanks to a late-night coffee, I spent a lot of time thinking one night this past week. I came up with not only some New Year's resolutions, but also a long-term plan. Now that my career is finally established and should pretty much cruise if I keep working hard, I can think a little more about what I can do with whatever spare time I can find. 2011 will be interesting enough with a new city, new job, new house, new church, new friends and (oh yeah) new babies. But there are a few things I'd like to do to make it even more satisfying:

  1. Produce a fantastic "Christian" album to share with the world for free (I came up with a good chorus this week).
  2. Learn a very old and interesting martial arts kata, probably leopard-style wushu like the leopard in Kung Fu Panda. I'll have to learn the dragon and tiger basics first.
  3. Record twelve half-hour podcasts for my music show. 

Then, for my long-term plan:

  • 2012: Record the second Awful Lot of Tigers album
  • 2013: Write my first novel
  • 2014: Record our "wedding album", a set of instrumental tracks I dreamed up for our wedding but didn't have time to record (might or might not write lyrics for it)
  • 2015: Record the third ALoT album (by this time our girls will be old enough to provide back-up vocals)
  • 2016: Write my second novel

It's all part of my grand plan to become the most interesting man in the world. By 2017 I'd like to be a VP at this company!


A nice thing about all these plans is that I can do them all at home, and they're very inexpensive--practically free, except that I really need to replace my electric guitar soon. So it will be relatively easy to be a dad and save money while accomplishing my goals. Can't beat that!


Today's Scripture
We've joined a new Bible study group, and they're kind of serious about it. They actually want me to read up and do some thinking ahead of time! So I'm going to interrupt my study of 2 Samuel, sadly leaving King David at a very low point, and get into Paul's letter to the Romans for a while. That's gonna make it a lot harder to pick a key verse!


Romans 1:18 - 2:16 (NKJV)
Key verse: (2:13) "...For not the hearers of the law are just in the sight of God, but the doers of the law will be justified..."


Reflection
There's a lot to reflect on here. It's important to know that Paul has just written a lot about sin and God's wrath. He writes that no one has an excuse to rebel against the things of God because we're surrounded by His works (1:20) and the work of His law is written on our hearts (2:15). Paul is writing to Jewish Romans, as we see in 2:17, and he makes a distinction between Jews and Gentiles in verses 14 and 15.


This is important for me as a Christian Gentile. Many talk about "spiritual Israel" these days, but Paul explains the situation clearly enough in chapter 11 of Romans. I, as a Gentile, am among those grafted into Christ's vine in place of the Jews who refused to believe in Him. Although I am adopted into His family and serve His kingdom, I think the Bible makes it clear that I am not one of the true Jews who will eventually be saved (11:26).


I think that Romans 2:13-15, though speaking to Jews, gives me a hint of my situation in Christ. Verse 13 is our key verse, and then Paul says, "...For when Gentiles, who do not have the law, by nature do the things in the law, these, although not having the law, are a law to themselves, who show the work of the law written in their hearts, their conscience also bearing witness, and between themselves their thoughts accusing or else excusing them..."


I won't talk about this as if I completely understand it, because it's complicated and there are probably many different views of what Paul means exactly. I'll tell you what I think based on my reading of the Bible, though. It seems to me that this passage could include both saved and unsaved Gentiles because, as Paul often wrote, Gentile believers were not expected to adopt Jewish law. In fact, he discouraged it, even scolding Peter at one point for his hypocrisy in this regard (Galatians 2:14). It seems like many American church members like to think of themselves as God's chosen people, in place of the Jews, but the Bible makes it pretty clear that we're just grafted in and can easily be ripped out if we're not careful (Romans 11:21). Paul said us Gentiles are from an olive tree that is "wild by nature" (11:24), and though we've come a long way in two thousand years, I imagine he would still see us that way today.


So, in my opinion, Paul is talking about both me and my unbelieving friends when he says that when we do things that are within God's lawthings that please Himit shows that the "work of the law" is written in our hearts (2:15) even though we were never given the law (2:14). We can read the Ten Commandments and practice them, but they weren't meant for us Gentiles. But when we follow the law—when we seek to please the Lord because we love Him and we know His ways are right and true—we are justified as doers of the law and not hearers only (2:13).


Does this mean that my unbelieving friends are saved from God's wrath? Based on what Paul wrote in the preceding verses about sin, I don't think so. But it tells me something about their capacity for being saved. If they love their neighbors as themselves and show themselves to be people with the work of the law written in their hearts, they certainly have the capacity to be justified. God tells us over and over throughout His word the kind of heart that pleases Him. Belief in the Son He gave up for us and baptism into His kingdom should be natural for such people if they aren't completely disgusted by the Christians they come into contact with.


My point? To you Gentile believers, I warn you to remember who you are and where you came from. I should see my church family as descendants of those early believers in Greece who received the word of the Lord with gladness and set out to put it into practice with the help of the Holy Spirit. I must do the work of the Lord by loving my neighbor and letting him know the reason for the hope that is in me (1 Peter 3:15). But if I like to lift myself up as someone who keeps God's commandments, I should watch out. Even King David, a man after God's own heart (Acts 13:22), committed terrible deeds (see the "Stir Crazy" post) that had horrible results (2 Samuel 12:15). I need to repent of my haughtiness before I drag the rest of the wild olive branches down with me. I just might save a few more wild ones along the way if I follow the path of humility.


Prayer
Lord, when I associate with nonbelievers, may I remember the grace You showed me when You first made Yourself known to me, a sinner. May I see them not as hopeless reprobates but as wild olive branches, just like me, who need Your grace just like I did. May I always find joy in doing Your work in the world!


Final Thoughts
Tara and I felt so happy walking around in our future home today. We are so blessed. There's a lot to think about, and I hope we won't stress out so much that we forget to enjoy this incredible time in our lives. Thanks for your prayers!


By the way, I just saw a scientology ad on this blog. Please know that I am not about that stuff! I am a Bible-believing member of a Southern Baptist church. I'm not completely conservative in my views, but I stick to God's word and believe in His gospel alone as the power of God for salvation in this world. Just so you know.

Following

The Haps
This week we filled out a form to get a tax reimbursement because we've lived in a hotel for more than thirty days. I had no idea there was such a law in place.


But there is finally some good news this week: we've been approved for a mortgage on that big, beautiful old house in Delaware, Ohio! Hopefully we'll be closing on it in the next week or so! Praise God!


We found out one of our girls, Neavey, is no longer breech but isn't head-down, either. She's transverse and sort of lying over her sister. As you can imagine, this is very uncomfortable for their poor mother! She's not on bedrest yet, but she's not having a great time. In fact, she's fairly miserable, so your prayers are appreciated.


I had decided to save money and not go to a gig I'd wanted to see for two months. Then someone at work gave me a ticket the day of the show. It was No Age vs. Pavement...I mean, No Age and Pavement. These are two very different rock bands, and most of the attendees were there to see Pavement. I had a great time watching No Age--I have all their albums--and the headliner band seemed really boring in comparison. I had a good time with my friend from the office, though.


Thoughts
Now that I've been working at this company for a month-and-a-half, I can say what I think about working there. It's...fine. The work is interesting, but it's not a better situation compared to what I had in New York. It's not worse, either. It's just very different. But the money is a whole lot better, and just living in Ohio makes our financial situation significantly better. So I certainly don't regret the decision to move. We just can't wait to be out of this hotel...but I covered that in my last post.

Today's Scripture
2 Samuel 12 (NKJV)
Key verse: (14) "If you fear the LORD and serve Him and obey His voice, and do not rebel against the commandment of the LORD, then both you and the king who reigns over you will continue following the LORD your God."


Reflection
There were several verses I could've focused on today, but this one struck me as particularly interesting. Usually when the Bible gives an "if/then" promise, God's people are promised some kind of blessing if they follow the Lord. In this instance, Samuel promises the people that if they fear, serve and obey the Lord and don't rebel against his commands, they and the king will continue to follow Him.


Think about that for a second. If I fear, serve and obey the Lord, He promises that I will continue to follow Him? Isn't that kind of what I was already doing?


I've learned a lot in the last couple of years, especially from Tara, about letting my mind follow my body, especially in social situations. If I don't feel like being nice or being interested in what someone else has to say, sometimes I make myself do it anyway because I know good things will result. Just this week I found myself pretending to be interested in what someone was saying because I wanted them to be my friend. It feels disingenuous, but it has a good purpose. As I practice being nice or being interested in a person, I make a habit out of it, and eventually I find that I actually enjoy that person's company. Have I changed in a way when I do that? Yes, but certainly not for the worse.


I love to remind Christians that serving God doesn't come naturally for anyone. None of us keep His commandments out of the goodness of our cold, human heart. "For we know that the law is spiritual, but I am carnal, sold under sin (Romans 7:14)." When Jesus' Spirit enters in, we are transformed into a new creature (2 Corinthians 5:17), and it's by His constant prodding and reminding that we are able to serve the Lord with gladness and receive His blessing. "...If by the Spirit you put to death the deeds of the body, you will live. For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, these are the sons of God (Romans 8:13-14)."


God's people in Samuel's day didn't yet have a Savior, but they were given many promises. This one says that if they fear, serve and obey the Lord, they will continue to follow Him. Just like I continue to be a friend to someone if I work to make it a habit, a child of God can continue to follow the Lord if they work at fearing, serving and obeying Him. If I don't make a habit of those things, it's not very likely that I will continue to follow Him! In fact, Samuel gives them the opposite promise in verse 15: "...If you do not obey the voice of the LORD, but rebel against the commandment of the LORD, then the hand of the LORD will be against you..." 


I don't know if the hand of the Lord would be against someone who had given their life to Jesus. I would hope that a person who knows Jesus as their Savior would not rebel against His command...but I've done it myself. Whether His hand was against me or not, I can't say, but I can tell you this--I was not following the Lord when I was in rebellion against Him. Does that seem obvious? It should. And because we are wayward children, even as His Spirit lives in us, we need to be reminded every now and then!


So I think the promise holds true for us, as well: If we fear, serve and obey the Lord, we will continue to follow Him. You know what I call that? A promise of blessing!

Prayer
Lord, may I always consider the gift of following You to be the greatest blessing in my life. More than my wife and children, more than all you've given me on this earth, my greatest treasure is knowing and following You! Thank you for this gift.


Final Thoughts
No action figures were harmed
in the making of this album
I probably think way too much about the rock album Tara and I released in May. We spent almost nothing to make it, and we saved $100 to promote it and then didn't spend any of it. I'm really proud of the job that we did, but I'm too proud to spend much time advertising it. I have a day job, after all. And then I get frustrated because hardly anyone seems to want to hear it. I keep having to remind myself that I made the album I wanted to make rather than an album that all my friends would like to hear. But I think it's pretty good, myself!


Maybe one of these days I'll start doing some performances at open mic nights to get more people interested. Until then, here's a little promotion: if you'd like to stream our album for free, visit soundcloud.com/awfullotoftigers, and if you want to buy the MP3s (99¢ each or $10.49 for the whole album), go to myspace.com/awfullotoftigers (which got a whole new look this week). I should probably say here that it is not a "Christian" album, but it is mostly positive in tone. All proceeds will go to diapers and baby food for the twins. And your comments, even your criticism, would do my mind a lot of good. Thanks!

Stir Crazy

The Haps
30 weeks! We're getting close!
Tara's thirty weeks this week. There's not much else going on, just work and meeting new people at church. We hope to move into the new house in a week-and-a-half, but there aren't any guarantees that it's ours until we close. We can't wait.


Thoughts
Must...move out...of the hotel...


Today's Scripture
2 Samuel 11 (NKJV)
Key verses: (14-15) "...David wrote a letter to Joab and sent it by the hand of Uriah. And he wrote in the letter, saying, 'Set Uriah in the forefront of the hottest battle, and retreat from him, that he may be struck down and die.'"


Reflection
The story of David's affair with Bathsheba and the murder of her husband is familiar to most church-going Bible readers. I had forgotten that David sends the letter containing Uriah's death sentence to Joab by Uriah's own hand. That's just terrible. We don't know for sure, but it seems like the army might not have retreated as David ordered. They may not have even received that order. Joab may be too ashamed of his king to relay it. Instead he uses Uriah's death to get out of hot water when he accidentally gets several of his men killed along with Uriah. Poor Uriah!


I'm glad we find out at the end of this chapter how God feels about this. So often we have to guess about that, in the Bible as well as in life, but we know for sure that at least Uriah's murder displeases God, and we can assume the adultery does, too, since that clearly goes against the laws He laid out through Moses. The story of the poor man and his lamb that Nathan tells David in the next chapter seems to confirm this.


Prayer
Lord, watch over my heart that I may not covet that with which you have blessed someone else. Keep me from adultery, thievery, murder and covetousness all my days. May I always strive to be a man after your own heart. In Jesus' name, amen.


Final Thoughts
There's not much to talk about this week, but we all know it's coming. Stay tuned.

We Heart College Football!

The Haps
Watching: Illinois vs. Missouri online and several games on TV. Can't wait to have a real internet connection in our new home!


Just chillin' with Tara today. We went out for dinner and a movie last night and had a really good time. 


I would've liked a pocket, but otherwise
this is a great shirt for a great price!
And after shopping for a nice polo all summer, I finally found one on a big sale at Nordstrom's--on the same day that temperatures dropped about ten degrees. Oh well, I'll be ready for spring! This is a soft cotton three-button polo in a dark blue color with orange trim by Montreal designer Robert Barakett. Very nice.


That's about it, really, and that's just fine. Things seem to be going well with this second house, but it's a long process, and there's nothing to announce yet. But it does look really good. We can't wait to move and get the house ready for the babies!


Thoughts
We were talking today about how the best stuff that happens in life is so often the stuff that can't be posted on Facebook! Personal stuff about ourselves or our friends, good stuff that happens at work but is proprietary...just thought that was funny. We might get to visit some rather famous people next year (relatives of friends), but that's about all that we can say about it online!


Today's Scripture
2 Samuel 10 (NKJV) (Wherein the action picks up again in a major way, and we get a great example of how not to do foreign relations.)


Key verse: (2) "Then David said, 'I will show kindness to Hanun the son of Nahash, as his father showed kindness to me.'"



Reflection
It starts out a lot like the previous chapter, but it doesn't end up that way! A character from Samuel Part 1 has a son in the sequel. David says that King Nahash of the Ammonites was kind to him, though that story isn't told in the Bible (maybe that reel was lost). He sends servants to comfort Nahash's son and heir to the throne, Hanun, but Hanun is one very stupid dude. He mistrusts David and treats his servants shamefully, inciting a war with a king who has already established himself as one of the most powerful in the region, one who was apparently his ally until this unfortunate day.


David has a choice to make. I doubt the United States would line up troops against a hostile country just because they put a few ambassadors to shame for no reason. But in David's time and culture, this was a serious matter of honor. Israel as a nation has a statement to make--you don't mess with God's people. Luckily, the choice is taken away from David, because stupid Hanun decides that it would be better to hire Syrian mercenaries to line up on Israel's border than to apologize. And then he takes his own Ammonite troops and moves them right up to Jerusalem's gate! Oh, snap!


The Israelites are caught between the Syrians on the north and the Ammonites pretty much right on top of them, so they split up and trounce them both, hurting the Syrians quite severely just a couple of chapters after dealing them a prior major blow and making them Israel's servants. Hard to believe Syria still exists today after all this.


So we go from David wanting to be kind to the Ammonites' new king to David destroying the Syrians hired by Hanun against him. Israel takes out the Ammonites themselves in the first verse of the next chapter! But they do it without David, because he decides to stay home this time, a decision he'll come to regret.


The lesson? Pretty obvious--don't be a stupid Hanun! If someone powerful wants to be your friend, don't assume he's going to stab you in the back. And of course, you'll be sorry if you go up against God's chosen king for no reason at all. Not sure how to apply this to my life, but...


Prayer
Lord, thank you for all your blessings. Please continue to give me patience as we wait to move into a house. Please keep Tara and our girls healthy! Let me know what I can do for you. In Jesus' name, amen.


Oh, and thank you for football!


Final Thoughts
We think about our little girls all the time and what they're going to be like through the years to come. It blows my mind how different our world is going to become starting in a matter of weeks! I'm pretty excited. We have so many visions of them in our new house. It's gonna be tough, but so worth it. We're so thankful.

House Number 2 in the Crosshairs



The Haps
The house we're trying to get now.
Tara calls it a "cottage", but I prefer "castle".
We're negotiating on a different house now, one that we first looked at last weekend. It's an impressive place, much costlier than the other one but without all the issues it has. Tara and I are pretty much in love with it. 


It has a lot of space, including a completely renovated basement with a big "man room" for my instruments and my Total Gym. If I ever record another album, that will be the room where it happens. I'd like to get back into podcasting, too, if my career and family allow me the time I would need.


Tara is 28 weeks pregnant now.
I finally took a good picture of her!
It's looking like church could keep us pretty busy, too. We joined this church last Sunday after our first visit. We attended a membership class at the pastor's house and were pretty hooked. They expect a lot out of their members, so we'll probably be just as involved there as we were at our church in Saratoga.


Thoughts
I hate to complain, but we're so sick of this hotel. They're not even trying to actually clean our room anymore. It's a relatively cheap room, as hotels go, but the cost adds up really fast. We're paying a lot more to live here than we were paying at our nice condo in New York, so it would be nice if our quality of life were a little better than it is now. As it stands, we're very motivated to get outta here.


Today's Scripture
2 Samuel 9 (NKJV)
Key Verse: (1) "Now David said, 'Is there still anyone left of the house of Saul, that I may show him kindness for Jonathan's sake?'"


Reflection
This short chapter gives us a strong glimpse at the true nature of David's character. We all know about his incredible relationship with his friend Jonathan. I wonder if he feels guilty over the deaths of Jonathan and Saul. He showed no mercy to the man who confessed to killing Saul at his own request, to end his misery (chapter 1). It was the Philistine army who killed Jonathan and mortally wounded Saul, and it was an Amalekite who struck the death blow. But that man went straight to David, probably expecting him to be happy about it. David seemed to go out of his way to show the Israelites that Saul's death was not at all what he had wanted.


Now David is desperate to do anything he can for Jonathan, and since he can't do anything in life, he wants to do something for his family. How happy he must have been to find out that not only did Jonathan have a son still living, but that this son was lame in both feet and had been cut off from Saul's servants somehow. It must have been a great relief to know that he could honor Jonathan's memory for the rest of his life by showing great kindness to his son.


When was the last time I sought to honor someone or show them kindness when I wasn't expected to? I think about that whenever it's time to buy a gift for a family member or friend. There are so many times when I'm expected to show kindness that I sometimes forget to honor someone because they deserve honor, or that I should show someone kindness because God's word says I should and it's the right thing to do. Maybe I should take a lesson from David and really think about other people once in a while, and not just what I can do for myself and my wife.


Prayer
Lord, is there anyone to whom I can show kindness this week? Whom can I honor who wouldn't be expecting it? What difference can I make in someone's life for Your sake?


Thank You for showing us the ultimate kindness by sacrificing Your Son. Thank You, Jesus, for teaching us how to live for God's glory, and thank You for Your death and resurrection. May we give You all the glory You deserve; we pray in Your name.


Final Thoughts
Ok, it's time for babies to get down. They started out in a yin-yang formation, but they were both breech at our last ultrasound. I read that using headphones to play music for them in the womb might be useful for encouraging them to get down, turn around, go to town and boot scootin' boogie to where they're supposed to be for birth. I wonder if that song would work!

Still Seeking a Home

The Haps
Listening to: Rose Melberg, Cars Can Be Blue and similar artists on my "Recommended Radio" at Last.fm, which always plays me a lot more "twee" than it ought to. Kind of nice on a hazy Saturday morning, though.


"Please, we just need a house
before I'm as big as one!"
This has been a much quieter week by comparison. We're not much closer to getting the house than we were last weekend, unfortunately. Tara is still working hard with our realtor.


She woke up noticeably larger yesterday. She showed me an illustration of what our babies look like now, and they're a lot bigger than I realized. We're getting into the third trimester now!


This week I got to write copy for a "tear pad" for cancer patients. It's just a stack of sheets with chemotherapy information that the doctors will rip off and give to their new patients. While lung cancer is a very serious condition, it's exciting to me that one of the first things many newly diagnosed patients will receive will be a page of information that I wrote! That's the kind of thing that drives and motivates me in this job.


Tomorrow we'll finally visit a church and try to make some friends. We could really use a few right now! I guess it's been three weeks since we had anything to do with church. The one we're looking at seems exciting.


Thoughts
The difference in my attitude this month and my attitude when I started my previous job has been very obvious to me. At the end of 2007, I had just been let go from a job, been on unemployment wages for two months, ended up having to move literally a thousand miles away to be employed again in a place far from any place I'd ever been. Not only that, but I had just become engaged to a girl I'd known for about nine months, and it was to be a very short engagement! Looking back, I'm actually happy about how well I was able to get through it, and I know it's only because I was looking to the Lord, and He was beside me the whole time.


How completely different it is this time! My last company actually misses me now, because I suddenly got a lot better at my job at the end of 2009. I'm in one of the happiest marriages I've ever seen, back in a state I already loved, in a workplace that amazes me with really nice people, and about to have twin girls! And, importantly, I have twice as much confidence as I had a few years ago thanks to the experience I've gained since then. I no longer feel like the account executives are talking way over my head--just a little over it sometimes. In short, I'm pretty much right where I want to be in life.


The only question now is...am I where God wants me to be yet? With the Holy Spirit living in me, I can't help but ask that. And I'm glad, because that lets me know He indeed lives in me!


Today's Scripture
2 Samuel 8
Key verse: (11) "King David also dedicated these [gifts] to the Lord, along with the silver and gold that he had dedicated from all the nations which he had subdued..."


Reflection
A short but action-packed chapter. King David is taking over large chunks of the Middle East, including strong nations such as Syria and Edom (an ancient kingdom in what is now Jordan). Apparently God did not have a problem with Israel subduing peoples beyond the borders of the land He had promised His people. It seems as though David made a hobby of that, though it's more likely that he was merely defending his country from the surrounding nations who were threatening it.


David had a rare, special relationship with the Lord. The more powerful he became, the more he recognized the hand of God in everything that occurred. This is very clear when we read his Psalms. How opposite is his mentality from that of so many Israelites in the Old Testament who forgot the Lord in the good times. Unlike them, David didn't need to be defeated by an enemy before he would remember the Lord. He walked with Him in good times and bad and constantly looked for opportunities to show the Lord his gratitude. Who would have expected his predecessor, Saul, to dedicate to God precious metals acquired from his enemies? The word "dedicate" is not used in the Bible during Saul's reign at all!


Prayer
Lord, thank you for this time of blessing in our lives. May we always look for ways to show you our gratitude and give you all of ourselves. Let us walk beside you closely and call upon you in times of peace and plenty as well as in times of need.


Please help Tara and keep her healthy during this final trimester. Help us to find a place to live soon so we can fully prepare for our babies' arrival. And please provide friends for us who will be willing to help when we are in need. Thank you, in Jesus' name.


Final Thoughts
We finally drove through downtown Columbus the other evening, and I felt a little let down. I expected it to be like Dayton only bigger and more exciting. I was not impressed. Fortunately, we really like the northern area where we are staying and working, and we like the little town north of Columbus, Delaware, where we are hoping to live. Northern Columbus is the booming part of town, and it's exciting to be here.


UPDATE: Before I was able to edit and post this, we went up to Delaware to look at the house again. While we were up there, we looked at another, more expensive house. We're seriously thinking about switching. We'll let you know!

First Week in Ohio

The Haps
Current location: Our temporary home at Extended Stay Deluxe Columbus, Polaris. Not sure what makes it "deluxe"...the DVD player? The place isn't that impressive, really, but it's five times the place we were originally going to move into.


Our temporary dwelling.
Listening to: Faceless Sonic Boom, the new, free album by the band girls in the eighties. Lovin' it. They're a noisy pop band playing music similar to the stuff Tara and I did on our album only probably lots better. They sound like a whole choir is singing on a lot of the songs. Very upbeat. Their frontman is my friend on Last.fm, but I would recommend them anyway. Download here. [[Parental Advisory: Explicit Content]]


So many haps in the last two weeks. Our belongings were put on a truck, and we hauled our Pathfinder behind our Expedition all the way to Columbus. Since then Tara has been hard at work finding us a place to live, and we've already signed a contract and starting talking with a mortgage broker! 
The house we hope to get.


We just had the house we want inspected. It's ninety years old, and it has some issues, so there's still a lot to negotiate. I learned a lot about foundations, guttering, mold, furnaces, and lots of other stuff this morning.


Meanwhile, my job is going well so far. I have a tiny office in a huge building. Hundreds of people work at GSW, so there are many opportunities to make friends there. Everyone looks like they're having a good time. It's a really cool and interesting place. I'm spending most of my time learning everything I can about chemotherapy for patients with lung cancer.
"The Eclipse", the "wind kinetic structure"
in front of the building where I work.
There are many such structures by the
same artist in Columbus.


We've also had dinner at a family's house and had a few date nights already. We're getting to know our new surroundings and the community we hope to live in, which is Delaware, Ohio.


Whoa, it's raining like crazy now.


We're spending tomorrow at the hospital where our girls will be born. We'll go to a birthing class for parents of multiples, and we'll get a tour of the delivery area and the neonatal intensive care unit.


Thoughts
Most of my thoughts lately have been about how to make the most of the new opportunities we have here, particularly regarding my new job. When I come home to see Tara, I'm fighting to think about anything besides lung cancer, so I'm definitely engaged. If anyone sees me posting stuff on Facebook, know that those times are the little bit I'm taking during the day to clear my head and think about something else for a minute! When I come home, I'm still reading and learning, or at least thinking about what to do with what I've learned.


I'm the luckiest husband in the world to have a wife who does all the house-thinking for me! She lets me be involved as much as I want, but she's the one who organizes and runs everything. She's more particular about where we live anyway, and I just want her to be happy, so it's really nice that she is leading the way in all the decisions that need to be made.


Today's Scripture
2 Samuel 7 (NKJV)
Key verse: (21) "For Your word’s sake, and according to Your own heart, You have done all these great things, to make Your servant know them."


Reflection
No action in this chapter, but I still love it. David and God have a conversation via Nathan the prophet, and it's a very positive talk...unlike one they'll have a little later in the book. Verse 21 resonates with me a lot right now because it's exactly how I've been feeling toward the Lord lately. His recent blessings toward Tara and myself are tremendous, and it's for no reason that we can see except that He wants to. 


Granted, everything He's blessed us with has caused us some amount of difficulty, but it could have been a whole lot worse, and we have so much to look forward to in the months to come that you'll never hear us complain! We usually have to go through a little bit of hardship to get to the best stuff in life, and this time we can see it coming miles away! 


The crazy thing is how little I deserve any of this. Yes, I serve the Lord, but only when it's fun and easy. I'm no great servant by any means, but He treats me like I am...even though I like to listen to music with explicit content. So I'm crazy grateful to my Lord! 


There is a verse I've been reminded of this past week, and it's weird because it's literally a satanic quote! But it's in Job 1, where God is glorifying His servant Job in a conversation with the devil. In verses 9 and 10, Satan responds to the Lord saying, "Does Job fear God for nothing? Have you not made a hedge around him, around his household, and around all that he has on every side? You have blessed the work of his hands, and his possessions have increased in the land."


Prayer
Lord, I do fear you. I know that all you have blessed me with could easily be taken away tomorrow. You give and take away--blessed be the name of the Lord.


Like that old serpent said, you've made a hedge around me, my household and all that I have on every side. You've blessed the work of my hands, and my possessions have increased in the land!


And to quote David, "For Your word’s sake, and according to Your own heart, You have done all these great things, to make Your servant know them." I am so thankful. As he said in verse 26, "Let Your name be magnified forever."


If it's Your will, please continue to help us through this process of getting this house. You see how much Tara wants it...but we want Your will.


Thank you, in Jesus' name.


Final Thoughts
Tara and I were just discussing whether we might have to give up on this house and move into a nice three-bedroom apartment. At this point, we're at the sellers' mercy, and timing is a big issue with our pregnancy. I won't bore you with the details, but there's your update. Thanks to all of you who have prayed, and you can keep it up if you want!

Our Final Week in New York

The Haps
Listening to: A mix of alternative country, sixties avant-pop, soul jazz and general weirdness at Pandora.com.


Can anyone help me with the spacing on this blog? It's weird that this is the default formatting. Why is there so much space between paragraphs? I can't figure out the HTML.


This was a tough week, and I'm still pretty tired since I had to get up at 6:15 today to attend my last Gideons meeting.


Besides packing boxes, I had to spend late hours working on my last project for my current company. If not for Tara organizing the move and finding us a temporary place to live, I don't know how I would be ready to leave town on Friday. Thank you, God, for such an amazing marriage relationship! It's the biggest blessing in my life, by far.


"I'm as hot as ever!"
She didn't really say that, of course.
That's my own opinion.
Tara is about to attend her second baby shower this morning. She hit 24 weeks this week (that's six months for the mathematically challenged like me). Here's a picture! My pictures of her never do her any justice, sadly.

Oh, and a friend and her new baby came up from Manhattan to spend the night with us tonight. Should be fun!


Tomorrow at church Tara and I will be putting on a mini-worship concert with our pianist friend Joel. I've been pretty excited about it. The setlist, our final one at this church, is all about God's love and glory and will go like this (but with keyboard and acoustic guitar only): "God In Heaven", "God's Romance", "Beautiful One", "How He Loves", "Lord You Have My Heart", "You Never Let Go".


We're leaving Saratoga on Friday, so my next post will be from...elsewhere. Wherever I can find an internet connection, I guess. I start work on August 9th.


Thoughts
On future hobbies, if there's ever time for such things again: Anyone can write a book. I've recorded a twelve-song rock album and made it available to the entire world, all for under $25. And it ain't half bad, in my opinion. I've proven to myself it can be done, and I can do it again, even better. If I can find the time and energy!


Copies sold since its release in March: None.


Regrets regarding my achievement: None. Until November, I'll consider it the greatest thing I've ever created.


Today's Scripture
2 Samuel 6 (NKJV) [Right, I haven't read since last Saturday except for church, Monday Bible study and Gideons this morning. That's why I'm doing this!]
Key verse: (13) "And so it was, when those bearing the ark of the LORD had gone six paces, that he sacrificed oxen and fatted sheep."


Reflection
This is kind of hilarious to me. Despite the sad death and marital strife seen here, this is a relatively happy chapter of the Old Testament. David was determined to bring the ark of God to Jerusalem, the center of God's holy land and the capital of Israel. But this was no ordinary box, and God wanted his holy object to be recognized as something that represented himself to his people. The respect you have for his ark is in correlation with the respect you have for him. If he killed a man for disrespecting the ark, it's no wonder he destroyed all of Jerusalem for killing his Son, leaving no stone on top of another!


After God killed the man who tried to save the ark from falling off a cart, David was upset, and you and I probably would've been, too. When he saw that the family who kept the ark in their house for three months was blessed, he decided it was safe to try again. I bet he put it on a better cart this time!


I can just imagine those first few steps. David must have been ready for something terrible to happen, because as soon as they'd gone six steps, he called out, "Stop! Everybody praise the Lord! Get the sheep and sharpen the knives!" (Or something along those lines.)


What happened to our fear of the Lord? We're reading Judges in our group Bible study, and it's so obvious there how quickly we forget God from one generation to the next. We talked the other night about how God really has to shake a generation to get their attention and make them remember the God of their fathers. I believe it's only a matter of time before that happens here in North America and hopefully other places. I believe there will be an ultimate revival around the world and that "all the families of the earth shall be blessed" (Genesis 12:3) when God's  promises are fully fulfilled


Based on biblical history, something drastic is probably going to have to take place before that happens. Like David, I might get upset with the Lord when it does, but I will trust him in all things and wait for the glorious end. He loves his children, and we will know victory in a way the nation of Israel never did.


Prayer
Lord, when awful things happen in this world, may I recognize your voice in the thunderclouds and trust in you. May I sacrifice my heart in praise and worship each day, for you and you alone are worthy.


Please keep Tara and the babies healthy. Help her blood pressure especially, Father. And please be with us during this move. We need you, and we will recognize your presence as we travel. Please help us to find a good house, too.


Thank you, in Jesus' name.


Final Thoughts
Goodbye Saratoga Springs, New York State, and everyone we know here. We'll never forget you. This was our first home as a married couple, and it will always have a special place in our hearts. Our family at New Horizon Church will especially be missed, as will the amazing family for which Tara worked as a nanny for two years. My company...not as much. I'm just hoping right now that the next one won't be any worse.


Thank goodness for Facebook! Let's keep in touch! Seriously!

Less Than Two Weeks From Moving

The Haps
By now most of our friends know we're moving to Ohio so I can start work on August 9th. Everything's so crazy. Tara will be six months' pregnant soon, and we're moving ten hours away. But we'll be so much closer to family, so it's so worth it.


Tara is having her first of two baby showers right now. This one's in Alabama. She left yesterday and won't be back until Wednesday.


Neavey at just over a pound. Actual size shown?
I packed my first box last night. I had no idea I've amassed so many sweaters! I guess that's what happens when you live in the Great White North for two-and-a-half years.


I decided to write down my thoughts and prayers in a public way because I know this is the most important time in my life for me to be devoting time to God and scripture. I must confess I've not done that much lately. I've been teaching teenagers at church, leading worship on Sundays and serving as chaplain in my Gideons group, but I've not been taking the time to be close to the Lord myself. I'm hoping that will change as this public blog keeps me accountable. I can at least do this for a few minutes on Saturdays.


Abbey, also just over a pound. She's a thumb sucker.
Thoughts
We're gonna miss this place. We've met so many good people. They're different from what we were used to. Most of our church friends grew up as Catholics. It's been great growing with them while we've been here.


Today's Scripture
2 Samuel 5 (NKJV)
Key verses: (23-24) "...So David inquired of the LORD, and he answered, 'Do not go straight up, but circle around behind them and attack them in front of the balsam trees. As soon as you hear the sound of marching in the tops of the balsam trees, move quickly, because that will mean the LORD has gone out in front of you to strike the Philistine army.'"


Reflection
I've really been into action novels and movies for the past year or two, so it's a great time to be reading 2 Samuel. It's truly action-packed. The Lord was strong with David, even though he had many wives and concubines (v. 13). Does the Bible ever actually say it was wrong of David and Solomon to have so many women? Not that I'm looking for a harem--I love Tara very, very much!


I'm amazed at the clear direction God gives people in the Bible, including the New Testament. Very rarely does it ever tell us what it actually looked or sounded like. God said it, and his people responded. If someone in the future writes about my life, will they say that God told Scott to move to Ohio to raise his new family, and Scott obeyed the Lord? Did the Bible heroes ever feel unsure whether they were actually hearing God's voice?


"Circle around behind them and attack them in front of the balsam trees." The Creator of the world said that to David! Our Father, who is one with our Savior, Jesus the Son. Such clear direction. Yes, God ordered a lot of fighting and killing, but his people didn't complain about it much. I have no doubt that these were truly evil and horrible people that the Israelites were removing from the land God gave them.


My amazing wife, Tara! 
The parties pictured above are enclosed therein.
Anyway, I want to be this close to God! There have been times when I felt I was almost that close. How could I let that go? Paul said that married people have less time to devote to God. I can see why! But Tara is definitely the kind of wife that is a help in my relationship with God, rather than a stumbling block.


Prayer
Lord, when you speak, may I be close enough to hear you clearly. May I look to you in all things.


Thank you for your incredible blessings. I could never deserve them.


Please bless Tara for her hard work and faithfulness. Help her and the babies to be extremely healthy throughout this move. Please show us the house you want us to live in, and the church you want us to serve in. And please direct Tara to the best doctor for her. Also please help my mom and Uncle Randy to be healthy. In Jesus' name.


Final Thoughts
There is so much to do, and I still have to work hard for my current employer until August 4th. What would I do without my Tara? Even pregnant, she's such a hard worker. I don't know how I'd make this move if not for all her help.


Time to have some leftover Chinese takeout, put on my favorite music and go pack boxes until I'm exhausted. Until next time, be well!